While I’d certainly be a direct selling customer no matter what, my role with DSA has given me a different perspective on the many reasons why people are involved in direct selling. When we talk about the benefits of direct selling, we tend to focus on the fact that direct selling provides customers with a unique experience that includes the personal touch of a knowledgeable sales representative, or the opportunity for supplemental income that many find attractive. But whenever I attend a party or a personal demonstration I’m always reminded that for many people, the best thing about direct selling is that it builds a community. Admittedly, women will look for any excuse to do a little shopping – it’s a relaxing pastime that for many is a much-needed release from otherwise stressful lives. The chance to shop and socialize is, well, the best of both worlds.

Most of the women at a recent gathering I attended are long-time friends – and those who didn’t know each other quickly found conversation centered on the products for sale, which led to discovering other common interests. It was clear that they welcomed the opportunity to peruse the items offered for sale; and most went home with a new-found gem or two. However, what was most clear was that they came for the opportunity to sip wine, catch up with old friends and take a brief break from their responsibilities back home. The direct selling experience facilitated their community gathering, but by no means drove it – and while they still talked about their kids, their husbands and their jobs, it was a welcome respite from the outside world.

I also spent some time talking to the sales consultant, a single mother of two who started with the company to earn some extra money to make ends meet. She’s part of a community too, one that provides her with access to training from the company she represents and support from her fellow consultants across the country. It’s not uncommon for consultants to form life-long friendships and even business partnerships through their participation direct selling.

My experience at this event and others like it always reminds me that direct selling is more than a business. It’s a community that often extends far beyond any financial motivations. Today, many people make personal connections online through social networks, but direct selling companies used this concept far before the Internet even existed. Direct selling not only reflects current social trends – it even helps shape social trends. So, whether you’re chatting with your friends online, or sitting in your best friend’s living room browsing through product samples, think about the community you’re a part of and the important connections you are making.

As you can imagine, one of the ways the women in the story are earning extra money is through direct selling – whether it’s via a DSA member company, or by selling a product they’ve developed themselves.

One of them, Carrie Wilson, became an independent seller for a DSA company. She told the News-Press:

“I thought it would help me get out of the house and make a little extra money. It’s worked out great. In addition to meeting lots of new people and getting better in the kitchen, I’ve been able to pay off a couple of credit cards.”

This is such a great story because it underscores the fact that most people are not involved in direct selling to make a lot of money. It’s disheartening when people claim direct selling is not a viable way to buy and sell products and services because everyone isn’t making a full-time income. There are millions of people out there earning a couple hundred dollars a month through direct selling – and that meets or exceeds their goals!

The problem comes in when someone doesn’t enter direct selling with reasonable expectations – and that could be because they were told by someone else it would be easy money, or because they themselves underestimated the time and effort it will take to achieve their goals. Unfortunately, those are the stories that taint what is otherwise a great chance to do something fun and interesting.

Anyone who says something’s wrong with direct selling because everyone isn’t making millions absolutely doesn’t understand what constitutes success for the average direct seller. True – you do find a relative few super earners – but there’s a reason for that which doesn’t involve flaws in the business model.

Many also fail to take into account the fact that money is not the only reason people try direct selling. The women profiled in the News-Press story discuss how direct selling has enabled them to earn some extra income, but also outline a number of additional aspects they find attractive about direct selling and other home-based businesses.

The writer summed up Momtrepreneurship this way:

“Although we set out to discover how Southwest Florida moms are making money by embracing entrepreneurism, we learned that, in many cases, money isn’t the driving factor.

“The moms we spoke with pursue their businesses for a variety of reasons, including getting out of the house, meeting other women, socializing with friends and pursuing a passion. The money is certainly nice and even necessary to an extent, but these modern moms are filling more voids than one with their businesses.”